Here are the sites we referenced this morning to help you as you put together your gender papers. This is by no means exhaustive--they're just the ones we talked about.
The following will help primarily with paper option 2. The graphic at the end should help with option 1. Remember if you want to focus more on gender issues for males, the conversation section of the gender section in our book has several essays grouped around that very topic. I hope this helps.
The Retro Housewife commenting on the list above (She notes she has moved her newer posts here if you need to dig into her blog for any reason)
Wife and Mommy blog
The Happy Housewives of Lambton County
Husband Appreciation Day!